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A Next Step

circle upTherapeutic boarding schools are but one of the many options for providing services to struggling teens.   There are community services, residential treatment centers, wilderness programs, and a variety of hybrids.  Discerning which placement would best suit the needs of a student can be a difficult and wearisome task.

At the Family Foundation School, we realize that our option is not necessarily the best one for any given student and to that end we advise parents to consider as many resources as possible when trying to discern an appropriate placement for their child.  Often this process can be aided by the expertise of an independent third party, such as an educational consultant.  We also encourage parents to do research on the field, remembering that especially with the web, each piece of information needs to be considered in relationship to a broader whole.

Even when the decision has been made to seek placement in a therapuetic boarding school, how do you decide from amongst the options?  Recently Jeff Brain created a guide to help provide parents with an assessment strategy when considering placement at therapuetic boarding schools.   The questions within will allow parents to gather the scope of information needed to make an informed choice.

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There are many pressures on organizations like ours that focus on serving struggling teens.  Cultivating a therapeutic milieu takes constant attention.  Attempting to close the academic gap for students like ours who often often arrive at therapeutic boarding schools behind in their studies demands a team approach that incorporates feedback from the students, the parents, the previous placement and our staff.  And it’s always essential to keep our organization in a transformative mode so that it can continue to grow as best practices change.

All the tasks that face us demand good communication.  Even during these difficult economic times, as a leadership team we spend a large percentage of out efforts focusing on the demands of communication.   And the challenge comes in many forms.   Internal memos, external releases, crafting attentive responses for the wide range of constituencies that we are in dialogue with; helping our staff to have the consistent messaging; facilitating communication between our students and their families of origin.

It’s important to remember the factors that enhance the quality of communication.  This includes appropriate knowledge of the subject under consideration, showing patience, an even temperament, and active listening.  Giving attention to both verbal and nonverbal cues while showing courtesy, demonstrating understanding, and nonjudgmental attitudes are musts.  And where these aspects are missing, regardless if it’s with student, staff, parent or community member, helping others to join into these demands to ensure clarity of communication lines needs to remain a top priority.

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Struggling Teens and a Compass for Living

July 9, 2009

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Spiritual progress, not spiritual perfection, is a fundamental goal of recovery.  Progress needs a goal for its movement.  To that end, the four absolutes as developed by the Oxford Group, honesty, purity, unselfishness and love, provide a guide for struggling teens seeking to grow along spiritual lines.
These principles, which align with the spiritual [...]

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Renewal of School Spirit

July 8, 2009

Over the last two days we have renamed the family units at the Family Foundation School, a therapeutic boarding school in Hancock, NY.  Each residential unit now has a house name derived from a hero of recovery.  The change was ushered in with group competitions that encouraged participation and enthusiasm.
What was fascinating from the [...]

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An animal friendly place

July 2, 2009

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Dogs abound on our campus.  And so do reptiles if you take a walk up to the woodcarving studio and visit the cold-blooded menagerie.  And there’s a reason.  As a therapeutic boarding school, the relationships of our students to the many animals they interact with provide many opportunities for [...]

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A committment to best practices

July 1, 2009

As therapeutic boarding schools, wilderness programs and residential programs for struggling teens have grown and matured over the past thirty years, they have worked diligently to share best practices and to define quality safety and care standards.  Inviting outside accreditation organizations like the Joint Commission along with the efforts of our peer organizations across the [...]

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Common Symptoms of Teen Depression

June 29, 2009

Many times the challenges we see in struggling teens are complex, with a mixture of behavioral, developmental and psychological realities pulli8ng in opposite directions.  Often depression is an underlying reality.  As this resource on teenage depression points out, common symptoms of teen depression include:

has trouble making/keeping friends
declining grades/truancy
loss of interest in normally [...]

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So many options, so many questions

June 27, 2009

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When you are searching for high schools for troubled teens, there are many questions that can help uncover the information that will help make the best choice for your child.  Jeff Brain has just published a guide to help parents make an informed decision.  Within this resource Jeff develops dozens of [...]

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Angry teens need a healthy way out

June 25, 2009

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Over the past three days I heard some startling stories of frustration that erupted into violence.  A microwave oven that was thrown out of a third floor window.  A car driven in reverse at full throttle until hitting a parked car.  A sibling pushed through  glass door.
Some of the angry teens [...]

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Learning Differences

June 24, 2009

Traveling around Capitol Hill yesterday to lend support for the efforts of the Senate to bring appropriate federal regulation and oversight to the residential placement of teens and children, I listened to an interesting conversation unfold.
It detailed the difficulties of a parent whose son was labeled learning disabled at an early age.  A decade of [...]

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