From the monthly archives:

June 2009

Many times the challenges we see in struggling teens are complex, with a mixture of behavioral, developmental and psychological realities pulli8ng in opposite directions.  Often depression is an underlying reality.  As this resource on teenage depression points out, common symptoms of teen depression include:

  • has trouble making/keeping friends
  • declining grades/truancy
  • loss of interest in normally focused activities
  • anger/irritability/hostility
  • weepiness/sadness
  • restlessness/agitation
  • excessive sexual behavior
  • acting-out behavior (stealing, violence, self-injury)
  • declining self-care and hygiene
  • negative self-talk/low self-esteem
  • disordered eating habits/change in appetite
  • pessimism
  • somatic complaints (headaches, stomach aches, etc.)
  • isolationism/withdrawal
  • difficulty with concentrating and/or decision making
  • personality changes
  • suicidal ideation
  • substance use

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Dad ... Look Behind You!!
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When you are searching for high schools for troubled teens, there are many questions that can help uncover the information that will help make the best choice for your child.  Jeff Brain has just published a guide to help parents make an informed decision.  Within this resource Jeff develops dozens of important questions, provides objective resources to help provide perspective, and gives a clear overview of options so that exist to meet the needs of struggling youth.  As Jeff shares,

“My hope in writing this is to provide parents with a checklist — a list of important and necessary things to look for, questions to ask, and mistakes to avoid when touring a campus. The list is developed not only from my experience as the director of admissions at a therapeutic boarding school, but also as a clinician who has visited over 100 schools and programs.  From both sides of the table, I have experienced the challenge of not only learning and understanding programs, but in accurately representing them as well.”

The resource list from this resource is as follows:

The following are good, objective, informative websites that can provide you with helpful information about your therapeutic school search.

www.strugglingteens.com

www.gposner.com/resources/resources.htm

www.natsap.org

www.iecaonline.org

Follow Jeff’s blog at Help for Struggling Teens and Families.

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Ripples

June 26, 2009

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In the midst of our busy season, there’s some new content emerging on our partner blogs that deserves mention.
Jeff has developed an interesting resource for parent, providing a well thought out checklist of questions to assist parents visiting residential placement options for their struggling teens.
Sid continues to develop his ideas around [...]

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Angry teens need a healthy way out

June 25, 2009

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Over the past three days I heard some startling stories of frustration that erupted into violence.  A microwave oven that was thrown out of a third floor window.  A car driven in reverse at full throttle until hitting a parked car.  A sibling pushed through  glass door.
Some of the angry teens [...]

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Learning Differences

June 24, 2009

Traveling around Capitol Hill yesterday to lend support for the efforts of the Senate to bring appropriate federal regulation and oversight to the residential placement of teens and children, I listened to an interesting conversation unfold.
It detailed the difficulties of a parent whose son was labeled learning disabled at an early age.  A decade of [...]

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Turning It Over

June 23, 2009

Twice each year our community activity focuses heavily on transitions.  It’s graduation week.  This is when when the reality hits us that the work we do at our therapeutic boarding school has many results, for indeed, The Family Foundation School is also a college prep boarding school.
The tradition at our school is that every student [...]

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Troubled Teens and Change

June 22, 2009

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One of the main challenges in each of our lives is our ability to adapt to change.  If we think of the greatest stresses in life (death, divorce, illness, job loss, moving, etc.) our inclination is often to use avoidance as a coping mechanism.
For troubled teens, these challenges associated with change [...]

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Challenges of Transparency

June 20, 2009

In recovery, re-establishing trust is a difficult hurdle that most struggle accepting.  Often the time is takes for the healing sought exceeds what “seems” necessary.  Often time when this complaint gets shared, those further along the path of recovery will provide the gentle reminder “that you took years walking into the forest, it will take [...]

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Troubled teen girls and the therapeutic milieu

June 18, 2009

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“Unfortunately and uniquely to our time, teenage girls face serious problems today. By junior high, girls have already moved into a dangerous, media-glutted, and sexualized culture that presents them with unattainable goals of perfection: be beautiful, smart, flawless, athletic, well-dressed, cool, sexy, in a good [...]

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Ripples

June 16, 2009

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The following posts across our network provide a wide range of interest.  Over at Help for Struggling Teens and Parents, Jeff Brain posted on Understanding Self Injury.  At On the Road Which Goes Ever On and On… Mike took a trip down memory lane with his post Back in the [...]

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